Unveiling the Interplay Between Navigating Unconscious Desires, Defence Mechanisms, and Toxic Relationship Patterns in Hoover’s It Ends with Us

Abstract

This dissertation explores the characteristics of contemporary American society that contribute to psychological issues, specifically domestic abuse and trauma. Through the lens of the novel, It Ends with Us by Colleen Hoover, published in 2016, the study analyses the experiences of the protagonist, Lily. Employing a psychoanalytic approach, the thesis unravels the complex psychological dynamics at play within Lily's character, examining the impact of abuse and trauma on her psyche. Colleen Hoover's novel is commended for its realistic portrayal of toxic relationships, avoiding the romanticization prevalent in contemporary American literature. Through the analysis of Lily's story, the dissertation highlights the importance of empowering individuals to break free from abusive relationships and emphasizes self-respect, self-worth, and setting healthy boundaries. The findings of this research aim to raise awareness, provoke discussions, and advocate strategies and support systems to combat gender-based violence and trauma in contemporary American society. The first chapter delves into the societal fabric of contemporary American society, aiming at understand the underlying roots of abuse and trauma. In the second chapter, the focus shifts to the analysis of Lily in It Ends with Us. By examining her personal journey through an abusive relationship and the resulting trauma, the chapter uncovers the parallels between Lily's experiences and broader societal experiences.